Books

For Individuals Struggling with Problematic Sexual Behaviors

  • What’s the Big Deal about Pornography? A Guide for the Internet Generation
    (2008), Jill C. Manning. Shadow Mountain Press, Salt Lake City, UT.
  • Confronting Pornography: A Guide to Prevention and Recovery for Individuals, Loved Ones, and Leaders
    (2005), Mark Chamberlain, Dan Gray, & Rory Reid (Editors). Deseret Book, Salt Lake City, UT.
  • Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction
    (2004). Mark Laaser. Zondervan Publishing, Grand Rapids, Michigan.
  • In the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior
    (2001), Patrick Carnes, David L. Delmonico & Elizabeth Griffin. Hazelden, Center City, MN.
  • Purity and Passion: Spiritual Truths about Intimacy That Will Strengthen Your Marriage
    Wendy L. Watson. Deseret Book
  • Wild at Heart: Discovering the Secret of a Man’s Soul
    John Eldredge.
  • A Gentle Path Through the Twelve Steps: The Classic Guide for All People in the Process of Recovery
    (1993), Patrick Carnes.
  • Don’t Call it Love: Recovery from Sexual Addiction
    (1991), Patrick Carnes.
  • Forgiving Ourselves: Getting Back Up When We Let Ourselves Down
    (2008). Wendy Ulrich, PhD. Deseret Book, Salt Lake City, UT
  • The Porn Trap
    Wendy and Larry Maltz
  • He Restoreth My Soul
    Don Hilton, MD

For Spouses

  • Mending a Shattered Heart: A Guide for Partners of Sex Addicts
    (2008), Stefanie Carnes, Editor. Gentle Path Press.
  • After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner has been Unfaithful
    (1994), Janis Abrams Spring. Harper Collins Publishers
  • NOT “Just Friends”: Rebuilding Trust and Recovering Your Sanity After Infidelity
    (2004), Shirley Glass and Jean Coppock Staeheli.
  • Affairs: A Guide to Working Through the Repercussions of Infidelity
    (1999), Emily M. Brown
  • Discussing Pornography Problems with a Spouse: Confronting and Disclosing Secret Behaviors
    (2002 & 2005), Rory C. Reid & Dan Gray. Mental Health Publications, Salt Lake City, UT
  • How Can I Forgive You? The Courage to Forgive, the Freedom Not To
    (2004), Janis Abrams Spring. Harper Collins Publishing, New York, NY
  • Infidelity on the Internet: Virtual Relationships and Real Betrayal
    (2001), Marlene M. Maheu & Rona B. Subotnik. Sourcebooks Inc., Naperville, Illinois
  • Living with Your Husband’s Secret Wars
    (1999), Marsha Means. Fleming H. Revell, Grand Rapids, MI.
  • Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself
    Melody Beattie, Hazelden
  • The Dance of Intimacy
    Harriet G. Lerner. Harper & Row, New York, NY
  • The Dance of Anger: A Woman’s Guide to Changing the Patterns of Intimate Relationships
    Harriet G. Lerner. Harper & Row, New York, NY
  • The Dance of Deception: A Guide to Authenticity and Truth-Telling in Women’s Relationships
    Harriet G. Lerner. Harper & Row, New York, NY
  • Torn Apart By Porn
    by Diony George www.tornapartbyporn.com
  • Let’s Talk About the Elephant in the Room: How LDS Women Can Protect Families from Pornography
    Jill Manning, PhD (available at Deseret Book)
  • Your Sexually Addicted Spouse
    Barbara Steffens and Marsha Means

For Couples

  • Sex, Lies, and Forgiveness: Couples speak out on healing from sexual addiction
    (2004). Jennifer Schneider. Recovery Resources Press.
  • Take Back Your Marriage: Sticking Together in a World that Pulls Us Apart
    William J. Doherty, Guilford Press.
  • The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work
    John M. Gottman. Three Rivers Press.
  • Purity and Passion: Spiritual Truths about Intimacy That Will Strengthen Your Marriage
    Wendy L. Watson, Deseret Book.
  • Rock-Solid Relationships: Strengthening Personal Relationships With Wisdom from the Scriptures
    Wendy L. Watson, Deseret Book
  • Open Hearts: Renewing Relationships with Recovery, Romance & Reality
    (1999), Patrick Carnes, Debra Laaser & Mark Laaser
  • Facing the Shadow: Starting Sexual & Relationship Recovery
    (2005), Patrick Carnes.
  • Divorce Busting: A Step-by-Step Approach to Making Your Marriage Loving Again
    Michele Weiner-Davis.
  • The Peacegiver: How Christ Offers to Heal our Hearts and Homes
    James L. Ferrell, Deseret Book.
  • Strengthening Recovery Through Strengthening Marriage: Healing From Pornography Addiction
    (Audio program – 6 CD set) – Dr. Kevin Skinner & Geoff Steurer MS, LMFT, available at www.marriage-recovery.com

For Parents

  • Pornified:How Pornography is Transforming Our Lives, Our Relationships, and Our Families
    Pamela Paul.
  • Protecting Your Child in an X-Rated World: What You Need to Know to Make a Difference
    Frank York & Jan LaRue
  • Home Invasion: Protecting Your Family in a Culture that’s Gone Stark Raving Mad
    Rebecca Hagelin.
  • How and When to Tell Your Kids About Sex: A Lifelong Approach to Shaping Your Child’s Sexual Character
    Brenna & Stan Jones
  • Kids Ask About Sex: Honest Answers for Every Age
    Edited by Melissa R. Cox & the Medical Institute for Sexual Health
  • Ten Talks Parents Must Have with Their Children about Sex and Character
    Pepper Schwartz & Dominic Cappello.
  • Between Parent and Child: The Best-Selling Classic that Revolutionized Parent-Child Communication
    (2003). Haim Ginott, Alice Ginott, and H. Wallace Goddard. Three-Rivers Press.
  • Talking to your Kids about Sex
    Mark Laaser, PhD

For Clergy

  • What’s the Big Deal about Pornography? A Guide for the Internet Generation
    (2008), Jill C. Manning. Shadow Mountain Press, Salt Lake City, UT.
  • Confronting Pornography: A Guide to Prevention and Recovery for Individuals, Loved Ones, and Leaders
    (2005), Mark Chamberlain, Dan Gray, & Rory Reid (Editors). Deseret Book, Salt Lake City, UT.
  • Infidelity on the Internet: Virtual Relationships and Real Betrayal
    (2001), Marlene M. Maheu & Rona B. Subotnik.
  • Healing the Wounds of Sexual Addiction
    (2004). Mark Laaser. Zondervan Publishing, Grand Rapids, Michigan.
  • In the Shadows of the Net: Breaking Free of Compulsive Online Sexual Behavior
    (2001), Patrick Carnes, David L. Delmonico & Elizabeth Griffin. Hazelden, Center City, MN.
  • Out of the Shadows: Understanding Sexual Addiction
    Addiction (2001), Patrick Carnes. Hazelden, Center City, MN.